Sunday, November 30, 2008

Find your purpose of life

Nick Vujicic(http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/news.php) , who was born without arms and legs, came to Beijing and gave a lecture on this Friday, in Shoudu Normal University.Thousands of students showed up and were all dramatically impacted by Nick's passionate lecture.

I know him in last Thanksgiving day, 2007, in Anna's Guilin house , she shared a Nick's lecture DVD name "life's greater purpose", His life experiences was a great shock to us all at that time. He was born without legs and arms, how come he can survival in this world?

At the beginning of the lecture, he told us a lot funny stories caused by his incomplete body, when he was in a car, he used to spun round and round in the seat and scared other people in the next car;he was basking on the beach when a pretty girl asked him:"oh, it is too funny that you hide your body in the beach sand",then after that , Nick became moved and said:"yes , and I can also walk inside the sand"~~~~~

See, he has his own brand of humor and not afraid to show people his incomplete body, actually he does not think that he is a disable people , because he was born like this, he even does not know the feeling of a normal people who has normal arms and legs .

Before his 15 years old , He used to be troubled by lots of things and he even want to give up his life, then, soon he became a Christian,He derives strength from his Christianity. now, he travel around the world ,able to share with people his life story and his assurance that his value was found in God's eyes, it was a life-changing message for many.

He said his is the most unfortunate person as born without arms and legs, but he is also the most Lucky men who can now help other people through his experience and happy everyday in God's eyes

Thursday, November 27, 2008

How come you work with a boss that has prejudice against you


Weather is getting colder and colder
So my heart
I have been in Beijing for 4 month
Actually this city is still confused to me

Am I wrong to choose Beijing ?
AmI so stubborn to finish a so call good job before?
Although today's failed interview did not do any influence to my future
It did let me feel disappoint in a while


The manager asked me with an incredulous look"may be one moth latter I will call you again , to find that whether you find a good job in Beijing , you know this is Beijing ,not like your little Guilin "

He is such a haughty and supercilious person , during the 3hours interview, most time he expressed his burning passion for this brand new company, and seldom let us to express our question. Yes , he is a famous lecturer and have given a lot speeches around China and abroad, but this doesn't mean that he can look down upon the interviewee, I think , my be , he used to look down at the sea of faces beneath him. and of course he will not be a good leader

I don't like his lofty treatment of interviewee.if I am not happy with my boss , how come I will work hard for him?

To be or not to be , I choose to stay in the inbound tourist area,and will wait a good opportunity to come

Let me give it to god and pray

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

where is the man ?

May be you have the same feeling like mine: you live in an area that man less than woman .let's give you some example :

1. when I chose liberal arts in the high school , I found that man is just like the rare animal, and women started to show a mighty power not only in the subject.

2. Same as my university, My major was Tourism Management, in my class , there were 120 people but just 30 people were male, sometimes they were even neglected when woman classmates were busy at class activities


3.After graduation, most my job colleagues were female, and even I have changed 3 jobs , my immediate manager were all female, they had the same characteristics:capable and experienced, sometimes I feel like they were acted like a man

4.Even in Beijing , I have heard that female singles are much more than male , so a men especially a good looking or so call successful man is popular

where is the man ? are they all playing electrical games at home ?

Monday, November 24, 2008

The opening

Thanks for today's live club ''how to blog in English ", my teacher recommend this good blogg to me

I think the most importance of keeping records of your life by blogging is that several years latter when you turn back you will find that your life will full of stories.

so , from today , my life in Beijing will be recorded in English , no matter it's ups or downs , life is always full of drama. haha :)

PS, Today I have also learn a very interesting sentence:

"The blogger is blogging in the blogsphere"